A woman place (part 1)

Okay so I have been hearing  and seeing tons of stuffs on gender equality so I have my own opinion, it is only in Africa or some parts of Africa that you hear that a "woman's place is in the kitchen"! I can't fine a word to describe how that sounds or feels, like um Hello! Who in the world created that system, another one is that women can not be sexually advanced, educated, oriented, free or be sexual, again who made this rule the whole bull of a guy can fu*k as many girls as possible and be praised when a girl does it she is slut shamed this is not advanced maths if you go around fu*king tons of girls and the next guy do the same and the train goes on and on and then when you want to marry you want a decent girl or virgin .... where, from where, which planet I am not saying there are no  decent(virgin) girls out there but come on you probably lied and manipulate this girls making most of them fall in love with you and ditch them after sex and the next guy does the same thing and the chain continue. So where will you find that good perfect virgin girl when every girl is a pond. That aside where those it state that a girl can not also be free to do as she please the world is changing so fast that the things we thought were the morals last decade is already outdated,so why has the world not accepted that a woman can be all she wants to be in career or personal life, if you take time to look at this, it is even the women that slut shame their fellow women because she is getting some action and not a boring house wife with dark secrets like you so you take your frustration out on her, some people just want others to be miserable because they are, or you don't want people to see the claws you have so you spoil someone else's image, there are lots of things going on in this world the best you can do is live to make yourself happy and not screw it for others cos your happiness depends on things around you too.  Back to the whole woman's place thingy a lot of the so called born again Christians take their perspective from the Bible and interpret it to suit them take  for example why is it so hard to find a female preacher, are we to  believe that God doesn't call women to lead the church, and you will hear someone say something like the bible says "the man is the head of the family" well congrats on finding that part and for leaving out every other part of that scripture, remember a head without a body is ummmm  what??? Yeah you answer that.....